Rich and Grateful

Communication is not underrated; we, as humans have to have rich conversations.  Those of us blessed enough to be able to talk to our spouse, or a great friend in a deep and nurturing way usually can avoid going to see a counselor.  In my estimation, a great conversation may cover a variety of topics but it always includes rich listening and laughter woven throughout it.

Last night I had one of those conversations. My husband, Ralph, was away for 6 days.  The house is not a home when he's away (Yes, Bill Withers, I can relate to no sunshine when he's gone).  It covered the diverse personalities of each of our 4 chidren, their paths in life, their antics that have driven us crazy (laughs sprinkled in here) and challenges, past and present.  We spoke of our gratitude for the blessings we share our hopeful plans for our future and how we are better because of each other's presence. The feelings I have and all of these topics we discussed are typically covered in  talks between loving spouses; I just appreciate having a partner in life so much. Life is tough and it is wonderful to share the challenges and the highs and lows with someone who connects with me on a deep level. I do not take it for granted; life is so very fragile.

I don't have to have anyone agree with me because this is how I feel at my age and its just my belief. A great talk is equal or above great sex and proves love and intimacy in the deepest and truest sphere.  I like to listen, understand, and I like being understood and lovingly guided to sanity (lol). I like to feel secure, as I do, knowing my back is covered -by my husband and long-standing friends.  I have my (virtual) hand held  and my heart protected.
How filthy rich I am.