My husband will often tell me that he sees all that I do for the people around me. He'll say, " C'mon, no cooking or cleaning or ironing or going anywhere to help anyone for a few hours. I'm taking you to breakfast and then you can call to get your hair done or get a massage; whatever you like." Being shown that I am appreciated and taking the initiative to show me, is just the most loving thing that I can think of. It seems that anyone in a relationship would and should be treated the same considerate way but often this isn't the case.